It Is Better To Have ...

One of the many lessons that i have acquired in life is that love is the easiest, most difficult thing in life to do. To love another person means that you must put yourself out there. You gotta be willing to be vulnerable and lay reservations and expectations aside. When you get the opportunity to experience "entanglement" with another being, you must must must be willing to have an open heart, mind and desire to be that thing for them that they need you to be and at the same time, allow them to fill in the spaces and places in your life and heart that are incomplete.

And if you ever have the misfortune to lose that love, don't despair and think that you will never have it again. What you think in the mind, persists. What you think about and thank about, you bring about. Energy goes where attention flows. All those good ole cliches. Don't give up and think that you are destined to be alone for the rest of your life. If that is what you think, that is what you will get. Write down the qualities that you require to compliment your life. Post it somewhere that you can always see it. Remain focused on those qualities and you will be surprised at just how the universe will put into motion bringing that person into your life.

Take it from someone who has put this into practice and is reaping the harvest. It is better to have loved and lost because you will get better love the next time.

And another thing that i have loved and lost is Krispy Kreme in Naperville. Boo hoo! :(